If you're anything like me, you might enjoy visiting places you already visited and loved – in my case that would be Madrid, Lyon, the Sahara, Central Asia...
Have you ever had that feeling of wanting to try something different?
Perhaps it's simply the illusion of discovery, but there's something thrilling about leaving the first footprints on the sand, looking out your window and not recognizing anything, or feeling something you've never felt before.
That's why experiential travel is so popular! It's about experiencing something, not just seeing.
Too often, travel disintegrates into a copycat game of poking a camera through a herd of other cameras.
When a place is beautiful, people want to visit. We're like that. We congregate - until we get fed up with the crowds or the familiarity and want to set off on our own.
Isn't there anyplace we can still feel (however illusory the feeling) like explorers of nature or of the human condition, places foreign or unusual enough to transport us, even for a moment? Places for which there aren't a million Google images and blog posts?
Actually, yes and no.
Most places have been Instagrammed to death. But some have suffered more than others and here's the good news: while your chosen destination may not be pristine, there are plenty that are far less covered and coveted.
They may be too expensive, too distant or too difficult to reach and while people do go, not as many people do.
Or the place might be popular and highly visited but the experience you have there might be relatively novel.
We can't hope to undiscover the discovered but perhaps we can see it differently, or see a different part of it!
Remote destinations are by their nature unusual: distance often costs money and the 'faraway' isn't accessible to everyone, especially in these geopolitically confused times.
It's easier to get to Iceland than Greenland, the Greek Islands are far more frequented than the Outer Hebrides, and nipping into the Saharan fringes of Morocco is more feasible than getting to the dunes of southern Algeria.
The more remote the more unusual, but not necessarily better - just different. My most recent semi-remote journey, to Lake Song-Kul in Kyrgyzstan, reminded me how wonderful (and occasionally frustrating) it was to be cut off from the world for a few days.
Another remote region not yet overrun by crowds is the Far North, the polar areas that are isolated enough for any but the hardiest and most adventurous (and often, the wealthiest).
Think of riding an icebreaker in the Arctic or watching the Northern Lights in Iceland or Lapland, or even cruising to Antarctica. These places are growing in popularity but still remain exceptional for the vast majority, often because of the cost.
Many of us allow our tastebuds to guide out travels and enjoy what is known as food tourism, taking off to Japan to find the best sushi, Lyon for the best escargots or Spain for the perfect tortilla or the best wine chateaux in Bordeaux.
Going somewhere just for food or drink remains uncommon, whether to sample specialties or learn about culinary culture and history. I thoroughly enjoyed spending the day salt harvesting in Brittany and cooking in Tuscany.
Most people don't travel specifically for food, so culinary travel holds its place in the annals of unusual travel.
If you enjoy the supernatural you'll definitely be dipping your toe into something unconventional.
Be intrigued by the possibilities of ghost tourism and the discovery of haunted or otherworldly places, as I was in Dublin. Most destinations have an otherworldly backstory and their exploration by mere mortals surely qualifies as unique travel. (The easiest option to see Dublin's ghoulish sights is with this entertaining ghost tour by bus by the way!)
Giving your travels a spiritual element will definitely set you apart from the crowds.
For many, travel itself is a quest, often a spiritual one, an act of seeking a place of comfort and understanding for the soul. Finding such comfort is often the goal of travel to the Ganges River in India; Adam's Peak in Sri Lanka; or walking the Camino de Santiago. The world is full of spiritual places and travel to sacred sites can be a voyage of its own.
Most of us love a bit of culture slightly less common is the desire to visit a destination because of its art.
Would you consider going somewhere specifically to see a play or an opera? Or visiting a location only to see its outdoor sculpture park? Or a specific museum? Or some glorious gardens?
I admit street art is one of the reasons that pushes me towards certain cities...
Taking a course is relatively common but - how about taking an unusual course? You'll find everything from marbling in Istanbul to learning to use a longbow in the UK. How about a vegan cooking class in Thailand? Many people go to Bangkok to learn Thai cooking but by adding a vegan twist, you're doing something fewer people do.
Conversely you could take a popular course - but in a distinctive venue, say a yurt or a chateau or a mud hut?
It's not really unusual anymore and has gone mostly mainstream but movie tourism to sites where filming has taken place can be hugely enjoyable. Haven't you ever wondered about James Bond's exotic islands or Harry Potter's Platform 9 3/4? (If you're in London, there's nothing so fun as a good Harry Potter walking tour!) It's a bit like standing on the sidewalk stars in Hollywood - knowing the rich and famous might have stood on that very same spot you're standing on.
To me this is the most emotional and moving of travels, the times in which I can feel most at one with my surroundings. Walking through forests populated only by animals, stepping across windswept sand or hearing the crunch of snow in the silence are experiences unusual enough to satisfy any explorer or adventurer DNA you might be carrying.
Wildlife travel can take you to unique places in the world, observing gorillas in Rwanda and Uganda, watching whales off Vancouver Island or looking for primates in Borneo. (It can also get you lost in the Amazon.) If I weren't so busy I'd turn my dream visit to the lemurs of Madagascar into reality. You could also try unusual accommodation in nature - glamping in an upmarket camp, staying in a treehouse or ice hotel... the choices are limitless.
But a word of caution: while nature can deliver the sublime meditative experience, it can also serve up wildlife, hurricanes and other life-threatening "experiences". It is, after all, nature.
Sometimes the uniqueness is more about how you travel than where you go, especially if getting there is most of the fun and you're using unusual transportation. Of course you can drive or fly but what if you could take a dogsled or ride a camel to get where you're going? Wouldn't that be a memorable experience? What about a journey on foot?
Getting there can be half the fun - if you're not going to the ends of the earth, taking a road trip could replace your flight just this once.
Perhaps you're a history buff and you seek to understand past civilizations. You'll go to Rome but rather than throwing pennies into the Trevi Fountain you'll be spending your time at the Colosseum and Forum. Or follow the Templar Trail through France. Or why not something even less frequented, like the extraordinary ruins of Volubilis in Morocco?
You'd certainly be doing something memorable if you headed to the Yukon or Scandinavia for some star gazing or Northern Lights, but if you're an avid space fan, you could actually experience space travel or tourism, which - in the unlikely case you can actually afford it - is slowly becoming a reality. But you may have to wait until the price tag comes down a smidge (and possibly the risks as well).
It's often called grief tourism but has a number of facets:
It is still unusual to travel to dangerous places (and that's a good thing). But if you feel so inclined (and I hope you don't, really) then hitting some of the world's strife spots would indeed qualify as unusual. Please, though, stay out of harm's way.
And let's not forget... sometimes we seek the exotic and unusual when it's sitting right on our doorstep. Look around and ask yourself: are there any unique travel destinations I keep putting off nearby?
When I'm planning a trip and am in the mood for something unusual, I head straight for Atlas Obscura, which covers in its words "the world’s most wondrous places and foods".
It's deeply satisfying to experience something new and different, something that activates your feelings or pushes your boundaries. I wouldn't want this to be my constant travel style (I do love a good city weekend or the occasional laze under a beach parasol) but for each time I visit a place I know, I like to add a place I don't.
And if I can't do that, I'll at least try to experience something unfamiliar in a place I know well.