Where Should I Travel Next? The Art (And Science) Of Deciding Where To Go

Perhaps you’re a seasoned traveler who’s seen it all, so the question stumps you: where should I travel next?

Or you may be new to travel and bewildered by all the holiday destination choices out there.

Or maybe you’re an armchair traveler, at least for now, wanting to dream about travel rather than experience it.

Don’t worry – you’ll find plenty of inspiration here.

You can start by clicking through to the thumbnails below: they will lead you to specific travel guides for women, stories of my own travels, memories… this isn’t a traditional “what to do’ destinations section (although you’ll find plenty of that) but one stuffed with history and observations and anecdotes. 

Not sure which continent is for you? Then keep reading!

The art of deciding where to travel next

Coming up with the best travel ideas is hard work.

Imagine having to choose between going to Madrid and MilanMalaysia or Morocco

How on earth do you make up your mind? 

Of course it’s part art (flair, instinct, desire, dreams) and part science (budgets, visas, distance, time…)

But knowing that doesn’t necessarily help.

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So many choices!

Here’s what does: QUESTIONS.

Each time I can’t decide my next trip, I ask myself questions to help narrow my choices and move me towards clarity.

This is the first — and main — question.

Why exactly do you want to travel?

It’s not always obvious.

Usually, it’s because you have a destination in mind — a country, a region, a city.

But your travels can be about many other things, so understanding your motivations and your desires will help you decide.

Here are some typical travel motivations…

HOW you travel is as important as why.

Ask yourself…

  • Are you traveling solo? Some destinations are more fun on your own, but some — like honeymoon destinations — will leave you feeling like the odd woman out.
  • Do you want to take a short holiday or leave it all behind and go for the long haul, for months or even a year or more?
  • Do you like the new or the old? Do you revisit places a dozen times or do you hanker after the thrill of discovery? Or perhaps you’re happier with the already familiar?
  • Are you a slow traveler or are you the ‘If it’s Tuesday it must be Belgium’ type?
  • Do you like to schedule your travel around special events? A national day or a festival? 
  • What do you eat? If you’re a vegan you might not do that well in Spain or Argentina
  • Distance and cost are often factors. If you only have a week you don’t want to spend half of it traveling around the world, jetlagged.
  • How do you feel about local culture and customs? I have several friends who won’t go to countries where women’s hair must be covered. Make sure you’re all right with local culture before you take off.
  • Are you connected all the time? Addicted to your iPhone? Some parts of the world won’t even have a signal, let alone a wifi connection.

Asking why and how you travel might help you decide where to travel to 

1. Are you a lover of nature and the environment?

The lemurs of Madgascar, the whales and dolphins of British Columbia, the magic of Lake Song Kul in Kyrgyzstan or the beauty that is Lake Malawi

2. Do you dream of tropical rainforests, of the twitter of exotic birds at dusk?

Think of Costa Rica, the Kinabatangan River in Borneo or the Brazilian Amazon

3. Do you dream of stalking wildlife with a guide at dawn?

South Africa is ideally diverse and Malawi is working hard to attract visitors to its game parks. That said, you can view wildlife without leaving town in Nairobi.

4. Are you an avid chaser of amazing natural beauty?

The Grand Canyon or Alaska, perhaps? Iceland’s glacier caves? Australia’s Great Barrier Reef or the Gibb River Road?

5. Are you more of a culture vulture, with history in your future?

You can’t go wrong with places like ItalyTurkey, Greece, India or Peru, and certainly China is replete with history.

6. Or perhaps you’re drawn to the mystical?

To secret places like Mamoiada in Sardinia or hidden places in the Philippines — the world is full of sacred places.

7. Are you a city slicker, happiest sipping an espresso in a sidewalk café?

Your ideal destination could be Paris… or Florence… or perhaps in the casinos of Las Vegas?

8. Is budget is your major issue?

You’ll find Bangkok, Lisbon or Kuala Lumpur a bit more affordable — and this cost of living chart can help (so can this one).

9. Or are you an inveterate shopper?

The world is full of fabulous markets — from Istanbul’s Grand Bazaar to the flea markets of France

10. A festival junkie?

Then it’s Rio for the Carneval, Hong Kong for the Dragon Boat races, New Orleans for Mardi Gras…

11. A wine lover?

That will get you to France, California, Chile, Australia, Italy… This list grows and grows.

12. A food tour fanatic?

This is one of my favorites! I’ve tried them in so many cities… – and then there’s this amazing food market in Lyon… and these markets in Madrid. I could go on. And if you’re hooked on coffee, there’s a visit waiting for you in Colombia’s coffee triangle.

13. Or how about organizing your own street food tour?

So many places have wonderful street food traditions — Kuala Lumpur, Bangkok

14. Do you want to see some unforgettable architectural sites?

The Colosseum in Rome? The pyramids of Egypt or Mexico or Central America? The best chateaux of the Loire Valley?

15. Is this your first time traveling? 

You might choose one of the safer destinations for women — like Singapore or perennial favorites in Europe, like Portugal

16. Or maybe first time solo?

Some countries simply lend themselves to independent travel because they are so organized and simple to navigate, like Switzerland or South Korea or Singapore

17. What about being sporty – are you into sailing, biking, hiking?

Now that’s not (at all) me but – there are few places you CAN’T indulge in your sporting passions. An up and coming adventure sports destination? Albania!

18. Do you dream of sun and sea?

Sample the beaches of Turkey, the Cayman IslandsJamaica, Zanzibar or the Seychelles… or one of my top destinations, Sabah, Malaysia.

Old town of Assisi, Italy
Assisi, Italy, one of my favorite destinations ©WOTR

19. Maybe you’re a mountain girl…

You could follow in Birgit’s footsteps and climb Kilimanjaro, or walk around the Mont Blanc.

20. Are you looking for off-the-beaten path vacations?

Try spending a week in Sri Lanka, exploring Saharan sand dunes in Morocco or bumping along the roads of Brazil (and stopping in Rio for a while) or Cuba, utterly unforgettable.

21. What about something ON the beaten track?

There are so many interesting travel destinations out there. It’s not hard to find top 10 lists online…

22. Would you like to follow in the footsteps of great explorers?

You can follow the footsteps of great explorers like Freya Stark or Alexandra David-Neel or Marco Polo

23. Is security an issue?

If so, consider visiting places considered safer for solo women.

24. What about things like social mores and attitudes towards women?

Some destinations are absolutely hostile to gays and lesbians so think twice if you belong to the LGBTQI community. Others are not particularly welcoming to women, especially solo travelers. Do your research and choose accordingly.

25. Are you political?

You may decide to avoid certain countries because of their politics, and reward others for theirs.

26. Maybe you’re the really adventurous type?

Your travel destinations could be Central Asia (Kyrgyzstan or Uzbekistan, for example), Iran, Inner Mongolia — or why not one of the world’s unrecognized countries?

27. Or desperately curious about places like the Middle East?

In which case you could try the safety of Doha, or the mysteries of Muscat, Oman

28. What about developing and emerging countries?

Like Nairobi in Kenya, or Vietnam?

29. What if adventure isn’t enough?

You’ll always have the world’s dangerous places — though I wouldn’t encourage you to put yourself in danger.

30. Would you like to explore a specific region

Pick a region and organize an itinerary that takes you there in depth — the cities of southern France, for example. Or, use a single city as your hub and then get out to explore the region: Annecy, France can be your jumping-off point to the French Alps.

31. Or maybe travel overland across continents to many countries?

There’s Cape to Cairo, Bangkok to Hanoi, the Panamericana or the Silk Road, London to Istanbul, Beijing to Moscow, the Trans-Siberian… Or why not one of the world’s great railway journeys (I’m partial to long journeys!)

32. Are you curious about the New Europe?

BudapestBulgaria, the Baltic States, or even Moscow. Or my little favorite, Moldova.

33. Do you worry about health?

If medical care abroad is an issue, make sure you choose a destination with adequate emergency medical care available throughout the country. These would be countries in North America, Europe and several countries of Southeast Asia. And whether this is an issue or not, please make sure you travel with travel insurance — World Nomads if you’re younger, and any company on this page if you’re older.

How to decide where to travel is a highly personal quest, and half the fun of travel is choosing your vacation destination (at least it is for me).

Still can’t decide? Then, drumroll: here are…

The top vacation destinations for 2022

There are too many travel destination lists, top 10 places to go and the like – if I listed them all we’d have a few hundred. Instead, I’ve cherry-picked from some of the most popular lists and chosen two from each. Extremely subjective, I know, but it’ll at least give you a sense of what’s popular this year.

Malta and Madrid – Town & Country

Burgundy, France and Doha, Qatar – Travel & Leisure

Bali, Indonesia and Portugal – Travel Awaits

Cairo and Goreme, Turkey – Tripadvisor Travelers’ Choice

Malawi and Cook Islands – Lonely Planet

Serbia and Charleston, South Carolina, USA – CN Traveler

Crete, Greece and El Salvador – Forbes

Samarkand, Uzbekistan and Uluru, Australia – Rough Guides

(Of course, you could do it the fun way and just throw a dart on a map and see what happens. I sort of did that.)

— Originally published on 27 November 2011



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