If you love to travel, there's every chance you've thought about your own origins – where your ancestors originated, or how you ended up where you are. If these questions remain unanswered, why not take advantage of your travels to trace your family roots?
These days, many of us come from somewhere else, or at least our families do.
Even if we grew up in one country, one or both of our parents may have been from another one. Or, we ourselves may have been born elsewhere. My father was from the Middle East, I was born in Paris, and educated in Canada and Spain, Iran and Algeria. Each time someone asks me where I'm from, I cringe, because I don't really know what to say.
Brought up far from any extended family, I've always wanted to know more about my origins.
As individuals we may face many unanswered questions: who we look like, why did we inherit certain characteristics, whether our ancestors were famous or notorious or involved in major historical events. Or we may want to reconnect with part of a family we never knew.
We may have (or are planning to have) children, and we'd like them to know about their heritage. Or, our own parents may have lost touch with their families and in their old age, they might want to reconnect - and we can help.
It's often called something else – heritage travel, heritage trips, DNA tourism, genealogy tourism or ancestry tourism. Bottom line, it means visiting a place that means something to your family history. A by-product is finding out even more about your family roots and past.
This adventure could take you anywhere, from visiting old homesteads to digging through dusty basement files in forgotten registry offices. Whatever you find, it will bring you one stop closer to your past.
It makes sense to start from home when tracing roots. After all, it's the endpoint and you'll have to trace backwards from here. Here's how to go about it.
Take your clues from your surroundings. Do you have any old photographs on the mantlepiece? What about items you've always been told not to touch because they belonged to your Great Aunt Addie? WHY were these items important?
Are there any family albums or scrapbooks gathering dust in an attic? Heirlooms or keepsakes that were always special to someone in your family? What about stories you've heard over and over again which happened in the past – there's often truth to them.
I'm numbering this 1A because I'm not convinced about the DNA testing. I realize it's incredibly popular and that companies like 23andMe, AncestryDNA from Ancestry.com and My Heritage have fine-tuned this undertaking to make it seamless and simple: the test comes in a kit, delivered to your mailbox, you take a swab and mail it back.
My worry is with the privacy issues of that information, although the companies do state your data is protected. It's your decision, and I know as many people who are comfortable with it as who are not...
There are things you can already find out about and you may know more than you think. My first step in anything is always to start a new notebook (as a bona fide stationery addict). Let's call it "My Family Tree", our goal being to fill it.
In this notebook I'd write down the questions I need to ask, along with the answers I receive from everyone around me. Keeping it all in one place ensures all the information is at hand whenever you need it.
I'd talk to all living relatives – parents, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles, and if they live at home, grandparents. Start asking simple questions:
In your notebook, draw a simple chart of your various relatives with all the information you have so far. A mind map is a great way to download that information, as is a basic business organizational chart. Or if you prefer, you can buy one of these smart charts to make up your family tree.
The idea is to find out what is available within arm's reach: we're after the low-hanging fruit, the basics.
This step is similar to the previous one, except that your circle should be enlarged. This is when you start contacting the people you may know about but who live further away. Some might even be in far-off places and you may have the opportunity to visit them when you take your ancestry travel trip.
Talk to existing but more distant relatives, especially elderly ones, and find out the name of Great Aunt Harriet's second husband. Get on Skype and stay there until you've spoken to every knowledgeable faraway cousin you've been able to track down.
Most cities, regions and countries have records and many of these can be accessed online. Look into whatever records you can find locally – birth and death certificates, marriage records and the like.
I'll have some additional resources for online research at the bottom of this article but you can already begin being proactive on the Internet.
Most countries have genealogical societies with which you can get in touch to explore family ancestry. Just search for genealogical society or association – and then drill down by nationality or location – something like "genealogy + German" or "genealogical association + France".
If language is a problem, you might consider trying to find someone to help with translation. One idea might be to contact the English department of the local university - at least someone will understand your phone call or email, but more importantly, you might find a student willing to do a bit of interpreting for you in exchange for some native English conversation or for a small fee.
Failing that there's also Apgen, the Association of Professional Genealogists, where you can hire a pro.
Potential sources of information are limitless. But if you're on the road, why not take advantage of being in the right country?
Solo travel is a wonderful thing and one of the many reasons we travel (other than wanderlust) is to find out who we are, whether by pushing our boundaries or searching for our past.
I haven't had a chance to do this yet but I'd love to do some research on both my Turkish and my French families. I suspect there have been both illustrious members and heinous ones – but I'd like to know. This is high on my list and I'm putting things in place for when that trip takes place. You could do the same:
All of the above steps should keep you busy, and we're fortunate these days to be able to search online. There is a risk though: you may be so fascinated that you end up in a rabbit hole and emerge a year later, wondering where the time went. Here is a piece of unsolicited advice (gleaned from personal experience): set a time limit for your research!
Here are a few more resources to help you get started in your search: