South Korea for 8 years
by Julia-Louise Missie
(New Brunswick, NJ)
I had always wanted to live overseas, and after graduate school teaching abroad was the next step. So, I decided for no particular reason to live in Korea. After all, it was only going to be for a year. Living in Korea at first was exciting, but not at all what I expected. It was harsh and eye opening in the different way of living and working. I thought I had made the biggest mistake of my life the first month I was there. I didn't' know the language, couldn't read signs, or know if I was buying simple items for cooking like salt or sugar. I ached for the familiar surroundings of home, my friends, my family, comfort in the everyday life of an American.
Choosing to live overseas is different from taking a trip or going for a short time, and I was committed to the decision I made to live in Korea no matter how much I missed walking through a shopping mall at home.
So much of me has changed since then. I have changed. Travel should never be familiar or routine. It is out of the ordinary that makes it so inviting. It is the hard parts of it that make it great.
Choose the uncomfortable part of a journey and it will change you forevermore.
Ed. Note: Isn't it amazing how perspective can change if you just give it a chance? I've been in that situation before. In fact, the first few weeks of what turned into a round-the-world journey I was utterly convinced I'd made a dreadful mistake but in this case, thank heaven for pride, because I was too proud to go back. Of course things turned around but for a moment there I was terribly unsure.
Even further back, years ago, I had been living in Canada when I was offered a job in Europe. I mean - who wouldn't, right? But after living a seedy hotel for a month (the job was in Geneva and there was a housing shortage, at least housing I could afford) I was aching to go back to my old job and friends and life. But I remembered my huge going away party, and pride was clearly going to play a role in my life because I certainly couldn't backtrack now.
Both times were life-changing events. If I had acted out of fear, I would have gone back and missed the amazing experiences I had as a result. I'm glad you didn't give into your homesickness and gave it a try. It sounds as though you too feel you made the right decision.
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Teaching in South Korea - and beyond
(Bedford, MA US)
I was teaching in the States and feeling a little bored which led me to look into other opportunities. As I was searching the web, I came across an advertisement looking for people to teach in Costa Rica. This intrigued me, so I called the number. The person I spoke to was working for a recruiter in Canada and said they only had openings in South Korea. I had never considered traveling to Asia but decided to hear what he had to say. Well, six months later I was on a plane to Seoul.
After a week of training I was taken to my new job at an all girls Korean middle school. This was a great experience. I learned how to acclimate to a new culture, education system and adapt in ways I never knew I could. I learned how to get my needs met, even when I could not speak the language. The year ended and I returned to the States, knowing I was ready for more time overseas.
Lucky for me an International school in Busan, South Korea called me and hired me to teach middle school science. This was even better because I had a mix of Western and Eastern. Due to the fact that the school was international and everyone spoke English and most of the staff was from Western countries, it created a sense of home while living in another culture. I met some wonderful people and found out a lot about myself.
Six months later I was living on the island of Aruba. Interestingly enough I found this more difficult than living in South Korea. The island felt too small and once you left the coastal area, for me it was not very beautiful. I did like that I did not have to deal with snow and cold weather, but I did not find the culture very welcoming and never felt as if I fit in.
Returning to the States, I thought I was ready to become more stationary. I realize that this is not accurate. I miss taking pictures, learning about new cultures and just being on the move. Not sure where my next place will be but excitedly waiting.